Tuesday, May 27, 2014

My Parents

In the post, "What's It Really All About???" below, I mentioned something about my parents.  When the police project began, I believe they were looking for certain type of people.  My mother had attended a dressmaking and design school which was connected to a dressmaker's shop.--It was what was called haute couture, at the time.  It was high fashion and customers had individual designs made for them.  The clients of the shop included politicians' wives and movie stars.  After my mother's course was over, she worked in the shop for a little while.  She was a working-class person but she had contact with famous people.  Also, my mother's sister-in-law--my aunt--worked on the grounds of the president's palace for a while when she was young.  This was in the country of Finland, in Europe, where my family lived before I was born. 


It wasn't that the police wanted a dressmaker or a gardener, of course.  But they wanted to know that the family could perform quality work, I suppose?  And they wanted a musical family, also.  My father played the piano and that was important.  Pianos, and also organs, were a symbol in the police project.  The pianos and organs represented the silent films of the past; and the police project was an undercover one--it was silent, you could say.  If a family had musical talent, it was also likely they'd have an interest in writing, which was needed.  [Have written about this earlier in my first blog.]


It has all been quite a complicated scheme but I believe the police knew what they were doing; and I just wanted to mention something about my parents here.  They chose the parents first, in my case, and then they followed through to see what kind of children they'd have....  I was the first-born and I seemed to fit the qualifications they wanted....  [And we're still trying to resolve the issues....]

Thursday, May 1, 2014

Sexual Harassment in the Bible

Some Christians I've met don't seem to be completely familiar with what the term "sexual harassment" means.--And it's just as well if people haven't had experience with the topic!  But I'd like to explain to give them a better idea of what happened to me in the past.  And there was a story in the Bible about someone who had a similar problem. 


It was Joseph who was working as a slave in Egypt, in the house of a respected man named Potiphar.  One day, Potiphar's wife decided she wanted to be intimate with Joseph.  And Joseph refused.  So, the lady became angry and she made a false accusation against Joseph.  She grabbed his coat and claimed that Joseph had tried to attack her.  Did she say Joseph left his coat behind when she turned down his advances?  Something like that. 


In sexual harassment, the perpetrator takes some negative action against someone who turns him/her down.  They penalize the unwilling person.  [And it's against the law.]  In the above case, Joseph was sent to prison for attempted rape.--It was a serious charge!  The actions aren't usually that extreme but sometimes they are. 


What happened to me was that I believed my former landlady had sexually harassed me and she had driven me out of my home for turning her down.  [The details are explained more fully in my first blog.]  She claimed the basement apartment was legally too small for my son and me, although she had let us rent it just a few months before.  And she had offered me the use of an extra room in the basement if I was willing to go along with her, etc. 


It wasn't my landlady who put criminal charges on me but then someone who was connected to the landlord/tenant agency did.--And my official case was brought into the court, with underhanded tactics....  The criminal part wasn't exactly part of the sexual harassment but it seemed awfully close, at the time...!  And I've had to deal with all this business for some time. 


[My contacts and I have been working on the criminal matters and other things that have happened to me in the past--as I've been explaining in my three blogs.  We've been making progress, even though nothing has been publicized, so far.  And I pray that I'll have strength to get through to the end.--Hopefully, it won't be too much further!?]